The Chronicles of Our Lives

Oh my! It has been 11 days of absence from here! School, work and church has kept me mad busy! I have a prose due this wednesday and was hoping to use some old write-ups from my old journals but they in 9ja wif old dude!

Had to get creative, all done now though....will post up on here after its graded.

So now back to the chronicles......

Our first christmas holiday..... I sure did not know how that was going to be but I was able to convince my folks to let me go spend it in Yaba with my uncle. We spoke every day and night till the wee hours of the morning.

We made plans to hang out a few days after I got to Yaba. It was a saturday and Uncle Owolabi was home, while I was getting ready, Uncle Blow like we called him was talking with Segun and I was freaking out getting dressed real fast cause I didn't want my uncle putting him on the spot and embarrassing the daylights out of him.

I did not put a lot of thought to my clothes that day but I rememeber having on a blue-green turtle neck jumper shirt and a really short brown skirt. We say our good-byes and headed out. I asked where we were going, he said, "oh well, we'll just cruise town, grab a bite here and there and probably his house so I know where he lives." To that last part I said, "hmmmmm, are we that serious that I get to know your house? Hope your folks are not home as I don't think I am ready to meet them yet." He said that only his brother will be home so no big deal. We laughed and chatted.

We just drove around Lagos and when we got hungry, stopped over at Mr. Biggs for food. We then headed to his place in Isolo. On getting to his street, I realised I had family friends that lived on his street that he knew. Small world you can say. He parked in front of his house and I can see a woman sitting in front of a shop connected to their fence and he says that is his mom!!!

Gosh! Not today! Not now! Not how I was dressed! Short skirt and jumper! He smiled at me and said it was fine that his mom was cool. I could not for the life of me open the passenger door as I was freaking out. So he comes around my side to open the door and got me out. All the while I could see her smiling and beckoning to come her way. He held my my hand as we headed to her. My one hand trying to pull my skirt down and the other in a death grip in his hand!

Introductions were done and the first thing she says is, "finally I meet you! So you are Mobola? Segun does not let us rest in this house, all he talks about is you. I can see why now cause you seem like a pleasant girl!" Speechless and shy all I could muster was thank you Ma! She made me feel at home, chatting with us and poking fun at how good we looked together. Segun then tells her we were going in the house, she says sure that his dad and siblings were in too...... God! Why me!

Walking into the house, I see his older sister who is my name sake looking really sad. She is a friend of mine from church, GWC in Sabo and I knew her boyfriend and friends too...my world was really getting smaller! Apparently, she had just had a talk with their dad about wanting to get married and he told her she and her boo will get his blessing only after he got a sustainable job! Segun's room is off the living room downstairs as was his brothers who was actually not home! He showed my around the house, upstairs was his parents and sisters rooms. As we headed back downstairs, his dad comes out of the room! Introductions and greetings were done, talk about a majorly embarrassing day. His family was really warm and loving though and everybody made me feel welcomed.

We went to his room to chill, watch movies and just hang out. In the middle of all that, he wanted to make love and I could not wrap my head around that as his folks were home! But, being the freaky duo that we were, we did, all the while laughing and giggling like fools! Crazy as it sounded! First time at my boyfriend's home, we had sex with his family around!

We hung out for a while and when it started getting dark, headed out. We stopped over at Dayo's house which was a couple blocks away. There I met their neighborhood friends, Timi, Magoo and Mega. Nice dudes. We chatted for a while, I felt really comfortable with his boys as we jabbed fun at one another. I guess I was really becoming a part if who he was!

He drops me home with a promise to call soon as he got home which he did. Xmas day came and we hung out all day with his family and friends, we made plans to spend the next day with the Ladele sisters in Surulere as the previous day was Iroti's bufday and that day was Jeje's. She was having a party. He comes to pick me up with his cousin Tope Oke. Meeting more family! This was moving way fast! We had a blast at the party with school mates and friends just having fun. Everybody looking forward to going back to school.

That holiday period was just plain fun! Hanging out with my boo, his family and friends. Pure innocent fun!

Beautiful memories!

Adieu till reality sets in and our challenges as a couple begins.....

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The Chronicles of Our Lives

Oooooh weeeee!
Okay, I shall continue.....lol

Feeling his full member in me as I did was mindblowing! Beautiful and freeing at the same time. I felt like I was doing the right thing for the first time in my life! Me a basically refurbished virgin(if such exists) giving myself wholly to my bestie! Waoh! Yeah, mom should see me now! Lol...

He was real gentle as promised, he stayed in me till my orgasm contractions receeded. Then slowly started moving in me, each thrust getting bolder and stronger as he could feel me getting comfortable. All the while kissing me hungrily with the rhythm of each thrust. Novice that I was to sex, with him I felt like I was doing everything well. I realised I could only hear my own moans! I go rigid and ask if I was doing something wrong, he looks at me so intently and said no. He kisses me and asks if it hurts. I answered that it was sweet pain.....lol

Sensations I never knew I could feel started going through my body from my breasts to my loins. Out of the blues I said, "I think am about to come again!" At that very moment, we both did and I gave out a louder moan. He slumped on me, both of us panting for air! After what seemed liked hours, he starts to lift himself from me saying he didn't want to crush me on the bed but I clung to him saying it was okay. We stayed that way for a few more minutes and I blurted out, "I sure ain't a virgin no more!" We both laughed as he rolled off me. Suddenly the thought comes to my mind from tales I had heard from friends that as soon as a guy is done having sex, he just rolls over and falls asleep! I was expecting just that to happen but he surprised me totally! Pulls me to him all cuddled up and started talking! I could not believe my luck! Jeez! Is this guy for real! I guess time will tell!

We stayed cuddled naked under the sheets and out of no where, Dayo was knocking on his door! I freaked out in embarrassment at being caught naked under the sheets! Segun jumps up from the bed, grabs his boxers and puts it on helping me search for something to wear. Dayo's banging on the door, by this time, me and Segun were cracking up bad, so I told him to open the door that I will stay under the sheets. Lol

He opens the door for Dayo who comes barging in cracking jokes as usual, taunting and teasing. Gosh, could the mattress have swallowed me then? I would have been glad for that to have happened! He did not come for anything important that I can remember, I guess he must have been bored by his company and probably wanted to just have some laughs. Segun dismissed him and locked the door after him. He then rejoins me in bed apologized profusely, but I had gotten to know Dayo and his brash ways by then and told him not to worry that I was fine. We continued chatting and one thing led to another and we made love again. We barely slept that night. When the first cock croaked at dawn, we laughed and decided to sleep finally!

I woke up at 12 noon to find him looking at my face. I smiled and asked if everything was okay. He said yes that he loved how I look while sleeping, peaceful! Lol....

I was conscious of my morning breathe, so I didn't talk straight at his face so as not to grose him out. He pulls me to him and kisses me! Am I dreaming? Oh well..... I get dressed in my own clothes after another round of lovemaking, lightly joking that I am not ready to be preggie. He said if I was, we will keep it! Yeah! Yeah!!

I was about to go to my dorm but I did not have the nerve to go alone as I thought my friends will see "sex" all written on my face, so I go get Yetunde from Jonomo's room for moral support. Lol....she was not ready to leave but I dragged her anyways! Jonomo and Segun walk us home and we all stayed at our dorm all day chatting with the rest of our housemates. I was always touchy-feely with Segun before we started dating, so I guess none of the other girls apart from Yetunde could tell I was up all night sexing! Lol...

As unbelievable as it was, here I was only 4 days into this relationship and I gave it up already! What ever happened to the one year mark? Or even "till my wedding night" ish? Thing was, we had been besties for most of the year and it just felt right!

By the beginning of December, I was so comfortable with the idea that we were a couple now. All my mates knew or rather confirmed that we were dating and so did all his friends. My birthday was coming up and I did not have any idea what I was going to do as this was my first birthday away from home! Well, he told our friends there will be food and drinks and for everyone to come hang out. When he told me, I was like, "what?" He asks what I'll need to buy and I was dumb for a few seconds as I dont take money from guys or ask. I was close to broke as the holidays were around the corner. When I did not respond on time, he lays some money on the table and says he 'll handle the drinks then he kisses me and leaves!

I am still in shock as I pick the money up to count it. He had left N1500! Keep in mind this was the year 2000! I lived in the indigenous town of Ago-Iwoye! Where food is dirt cheap! My pocket money a month was N5000 from my folks! Yetunde brings me out of my reverie saying we better head to Ago market as it was open that day. The market comes open every four days and my birthday was the next day. We headed out and came back a couple of hours later. One would have thought we were throwing a block party with the amount of food we came back with!

Then Yetunde asks, "who is going to cook all these?" I laughed and said me of cause! See, I loved cooking! Cooking was my past-time those days. I cooked for the whole house regularly to the point that Segun's friends were constant fixtures in our dorm! At first he was weary about his boys coming over just to eat and thinking I was their cook! I assured him I was fine with all the cooking. I simply loved feeding my boo and his boys. Besides, he always kept me company while I cooked, though he was always picking at my meat in the pot through out the whole cooking process but it felt great to have him there all the time! Yay me!

I called for Sanmi and Namso to help with the cooking as I knew they were also good at it. We did not sleep that night, getting the ingredients and veggies for the main courses ready as we could not cook it the night before. We spent the night prepping and chatting. First thing the next day, Sanmi said, "how are we going to cook all these food on the stove? It will take forever and not get ready on time for when guests started coming." Lol... I laughed and told her not to worry. Thank God for living in a huge compound in Akute, and also thank God for days of no light and boredom that had us cooking over an open flame at home.

I told the girls I knew how to light an open fire to cook with, all we needed were the big open flame pans which we borrowed from our indigenous neighbors. While trying to light the fire, Segun comes by and I could tell he was blown away at my ability to do this. He kisses me, wishes me a happy birthday and went on his duties for the day.

By 2pm, the food was all done! We had a huge platter from salads, to jollof rice, to fried rice, to chicken, goat meat, cow meat, snacks, fruits etc. We had so much meat, we made kebabs!(stick meat)

We all went to clean up and get ready for the guests to arrive. By 6pm, my mates started trailing in and his friends joined in shortly. It was just meant to be a "come-chop" but with the number of folks we had in front of the hall, chairs had to be rented as our rooms were already packed with folks hanging out. Then "NEPA" played a doozie on us and we were left in the dark. Candles and lanterns came on and I felt that the come-chop will be over soon. Wrong! Segun rallied with Abbey and Tolu, the next thing I know, I heard loud music blasting and I look around and see that a boombox was connected to a car battery! At this time, I see Tolu dragging in a 25 liter keg of "palmie" jeezz! Now the party started!

Folks danced the night away! Excess food and drinks! Friendship, fun and birthday! My boo threw me the best birthday party ever! Was I really falling for this guy? We were only kicking it right?

That night was mad fun! But due to the 10pm curfew, folks had to leave by 9pm. People did not want to go but no one wanted to be a scapegoat for the town vigilantes! Lol... We said our good byes and my housemates helped with the clean up. Segun said he was going to sleep over and also help with the cleaning. Yetunde left with Jonomo and Kemi with her mates, leaving me, Segun and Tolu. Tolu lived in the next room to me and was still cracking jokes and drinking with Segun.

I recall in the process of that evening, Chinko had come with a wrap of weed seeds he wanted to put in the palmie and I was mad at him for even thinking I was that kind of party girl! He was a friend of Segun, I had told him to deal with his boy as I wasn't having no crap like that!

After the cleanup was done, I chased Tolu out of my room so I could celebrate privately with my boo. I didn't think he got any other presents as the party in itself was great! As always, he surprises me again! Cake, cards that I still have today and a cute lilac shirt! Who are you! Could I be that lucky???

Oh well, a little intoxicated but still lucid, I gave him the night of his life! I did not care if my housemates heard me going at it! There was no light so no radio sound to drown my moans and groans, besides it was my birthday gaddamit!!!

Memories! Phew.......

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The Chronicles of Our Lives.....3

Lol...hope you guys are still interested in my tales? Oh well, things might get a lot more graphic and "R" rated from here on........well enjoy!


"Segun!" No way! He can't like me like that? He is like a brother to me and I don't want our friendship being all weird like that due to his feelings for me! I sure was not feeling him the way he thought. We were best of friends! I could tell him anything with no reservations. I could even get undressed with him in the room without fearing that he'll want to jump my bones! Besides I knew his girl, not like we were friends or anything like that but I knew her regardless and had been telling him lately to give her a chance.

Oh well, I told Toyin he was probably pulling his legs that Segun can't be no secret admirer of mine. He told me to just wait till we got back to school. I spoke with Segun that night and was trying to read his words for any clues to the said fact that he was feeling me. Nothing! He cracked jokes and gisted in his regular way so I figured Toyin must have gotten it all wrong. I pushed the thoughts away and continued on not mentioning a word about it.

Few weeks later, school was back on. It was the last week of October at this time. I was bored out of my head. During the break, we lost one of our mates in an accident right in front of his home. A bike crashed into him. He was in a coma for a week and later died. He had a huge crush on Kemi Ojo and she equally liked him but was just taking her time to know him some more. RIP Folabi.....

Well, I decided to go back to school even though not everyone was back there. Segun had called and said he was going so I at least had my bestie in school with me. That was all that mattered.

Getting to school, our electricity was what we called "tomato light" as it was not full current. Sometimes it barely lit the bulbs that even candles shone brighter. Knocking on my housemates doors to see who was back in school, only Deola and Tinu were back. Their rooms were opposite mine. Cool chics, miss them plenty.

As I was unpacking, I heard someone knocking at my door, it was Segun. Hugged, punched, shouted and the whole works laughing as we exchanged pleasantries. As always he was poking around to see what I brought from home food-wise. I made us some dinner; noodles and sardine! Lol

We chatted and exchanged our stay at home tales. All the while, I noticed his demeanor was a little different. I just passed it off as, well I had not seen him in a bit so I probably forgot his mannerisms. Regardless, I kept catching him looking at me like he never did but still let it slide.

I was sitting on a small stool and facing him as we talked. He was seated on a chair opposite me. Out of the blues he said, "you know your lips are very kissable?" And before I could respond, he kissed me..... The moment I felt his lips against mine, something moved inside me and I almost burst in tears but got a hold of myself quickly. The kiss was the barest of touches, so innocent and sweet at the same time. No tongue action whatsoever.....

Being the tom-boy thug I was, I asked what the kiss was for. He answered that he has always liked me beyond best friend state. I laughed and said he couldn't be serious! Knowing that I was staying clear of guys all together. I reminded him that if I dated any guy right then, he could never have the best of me because I was not going to be a nice or sweet girlfriend and that I would cause such a guy a while lot of pain. His response was that he was willing to take the chance.

Goodness me! Then I remembered the gist I had with Toyin and asked about it. He confirmed it and I said, "oh well, what could I lose?" My only question was, would we still remain friends as we were because I did not want to lose his friendship. He assured me that our friendship will only grow some more! Oh my! I warned him again that I will not be nice as in my mind we are just going kick it, nothing serious or commited. Lol...we laughed and sealed it with a full on kiss.....

Now that second kiss was...... Oooh! We chatted some more then he left for his place. The next day, Yetunde came to school and her first words were, "so you and Segun, how far? Y'all dating?" Am looking at her like, "you knew he liked me too?" She giggled and said yes she did as Jonomo told her Segun had said he was going to ask me out. Oh well, so I gave her the gist and she was giggling and teasing me all day.

Segun came by on his way to town. By now I was self conscious and did not know how we were expected to behave now as a couple. He saved the day, gives me a big bear hug and plants an equally big kiss on my mouth.....breath-taking! The Ladele sisters were just coming in the dorm at the sight of the kiss and the next thing was chics screaming, squealing, laughing and teasing us. Jeez.....lol.

He asked if I needed anything from the store, I sure did not and told him so. When he got back, I had lunch ready, everyone fixed themselves a plate and we all sat around catching up on home tales. By nightfall, Dayo and Jonomo were back from home too. Yetunde had no time for the rest of us common folk, she clung on to her man for dear life! Lol.. We all went to Bobagunwa, myself, Yetunde, Segun, Dayo and Jonomo. We sat in their yard talking all night, I figured well I'll spend the night as the curfew was on even though we were only a few doors down. At least we are dating so it doesn't matter anyways! I had spents nights here before when we were just friends so I trusted him completely.

Yetunde and Jonomo retired to his room and so did Dayo too to his his room. Dayo liked big girls and had some company for the night too..... Segun and I went to his own room. I did not have a change of clothes so I just laid on his bed. By now, with other nights I had spent here, I had my own side of the bed; I was always on the inside part, where the bed and wall met.

He was self conscious I could tell, he took off his jeans pants and shirt. Clad in just boxers and a vest he joined me on the bed and we gisted all night! Dayo came to his door a few times telling us to keep it down as we were cracking ourselves up so bad. I am sure he initially thought we were doing the hoochie-coochie! Lol.

Around 5am, still awake but feeling sleepy, we decided to sleep. I was way too excited to be spending the night with "my dude"! Though tired, I couldn't quite sleep. I was restless and he asked me what was wrong. Thing was, I am a very cuddly, snugglie sleeper! I had a stuffed elephant my dad bought from Japan when I was much younger and I always slept with it. Problem was, it was in my room at my dorm. I told him this and asked if it will be okay to snuggle him so I could sleep? He laughed, kissed me on the forehead and drew me to him and said sure.

My sleep that night was so peaceful, we woke up at 9am the next morning and I felt so refreshed like I had a full 8hours sleep. That day was a Friday I recall, we sure had not started classes. I went to my dorm to take a bath and change of clothes. Made food and him and his roomies came over for lunch. We all just hung out. We were young and didn't have any cares in the world!

Kemi was back from home that day as were most other students from their homes. We all caught up and I spent the night in my dorm that night telling Segun I'll spend the weekend at his and sent him and his roomies home with dinner.

Saturday was usually laundry, clean-up, hairdo day. There was not much to do for me. By now, I was getting used to looking in the direction of Bobagunwa to catch a glimpse of Segun on his way to my dorm. True to norm, he was just on his way. I met him halfway. Told him I wanted to go to Ago-garage to get some food. He stopped a bike for me, I hopped on and next thing, he hopped on behind me. He held on to me from behind and for the first time ever, I felt his manhood against my butt. For all the times that we hugged and I leaned on him or sat on his legs, I never took notice until then...oh my!!!

We got garage rice, headed back to his place. Just got done eating and his younger sister Tumi walks in. introductions were done. I had seen her a few times, never spoken with her till that evening. Very nice chic she was. We hung out for a while then she left before it got dark out. Segun and I called it a night. I asked him for a shirt to change into so I could sleep comfortably which he gave me and left the room so I could change. By the time he came back to the room, I was dozing off. He got in bed with me, kiss on the forehead, snuggled me to him and we started talking.

All the while we were talking, my fingers were unconsciously on their own drawing patterns on his shoulder and arms. I apparently was oblivious to the fact that I was arousing him until I felt his manhood move against my left thigh.... I started apologizing as he was reaching to stop my fingers from drawing circles on his body.

At that very moment, I knew I wanted him bad! So I kissed him deep and long. He came up for air and said, "you are not ready." I looked straight in his eyes at the same time holding his member, I said, "yes I am." He tried to move and said he did not want it to seem like he was taking advantage as I was "un-charted" waters. I reminded him I was already "charted." He said not really because that experience was crap. All the while, I still had my hand holding him down there. I could tell he was trying so hard not to have a hard-on but I was not helping matters. I finally let go only to slip my hand through the waist band of his boxers. The very moment my bare hand touched his penis, he let out a breathe. I looked at him, and eyes were searching mine to really know if I was ready. I pulled his boxers off him and saw him.

I have not seen a whole lot of dicks face to face. Most I had seen were in porn movies. His was the most beautiful thing I had ever laid eyes on and it was calling my name. I kissed him and he nodded at me. I looked at his face to see his reaction. Beauty was all I saw. He was laying on his back propping himself up by his elbows so he could see what I was doing. I was on my knees between his legs. I took off the shirt he had given me to sleep in. I let him take in the view before him for a few seconds. He pulled me to him, kissed me nice and slow. My forehead, lips, earlobes, dang those lobes. I could feel myself going wet and weak. He planted soft butterfly kisses on my neck, down my shoulder blades. He stopped and looked at me, I was lost in the sea of his kisses, he hesitated and was going to say something and I kissed him to stop him from talking. I took his hand and placed it on my right breast. He just left his hand there not moving or fondling so I stopped kissing him and said, "you can go ahead." Oh my! He cupped my breast and kissed me softly some more.

His lips found their way to my breasts and with the softest kisses he said hello to my nipples. With his tongue, he traced circles around my nipples and when he finally got to them with both lipped to suck on, I exploded down south in the most incredible way, my thighs were shaking so bad. He stopped and was worried he hurt me some how.

With my climax subsiding, I told him I was fine, and that I wanted him in me so bad. The foreplay continued, I realised he was stalling so I sat up, took his face in my hands and told him, " honestly I am ready!" He got between my legs in his hardness, said if I hurt I should let him know but that he'll go real slow. He put the head of his penis against my clitoris. He played with it a bit till I almost came again then I moved to stop from coming just yet. He asked again if I was ready, I just nodded cause if I spoke then, I would probably have screamed. I grabbed on to him and guided him into my sugar pot. Got his head secured in, I felt a little bit of pain, he was about to pull out when he felt me tighten up a bit from the pain but I held him there and said, "I want all of you!"

Slowly, he put himself in me, inch by inch until I felt the fullness of him in me. I let out a huge sigh and a moan in me I had never heard before and came hard a second time.......



Ooooohhh!!! Okay I really need to stop here! The memories are just killing right here!! Continue another time less graphically I hope!


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Moby Sugar

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The Chronicles of Our Lives (Part Deux)

What a place to put a pause on my last post! Lol....makes it interesting I guess... So I continue.....


My decision was made, there and then at the very moment I heard his voice back at my dorm. The very thing I made a personal choice to keep (my virtue/virginity) until the right guy came along, I was ready to throw away due to momsie's rantings! All these years I kept myself was not because of her warnings or threats of brimestone and hell. More to prove to myself and mates that peer pressure was just an excuse to give it up. Not knowing anger and self-pity could do as much....

Well Toyin was shocked but I could see the spark in his eyes as soon as I said, "lets do this and get it over with." He did not even try to be a gentle man about it and try to dis-suade me or even just talk....oh well! Free p___y he probably thought, "at last!"

The memories of that afternoon have been put in a dark place in my mind all these years but for the purpose of this blog, I will dredge up the lake and let it surface..... Oh my!

I remember sitting on a dingy mattress that was placed on the floor. His room was dark and very messy. Clothes and books all over the place. I was disgusted at the state of his abode but I did not give it much thought as my mind was going on its own train tracks then. I tried to think about my friends' stories of their first times and get myself in the "sex" zone. Nothing came to mind.....

I remember I had on a white flowery shirt and gray tennis skirt. I laid back on the mattress waiting for him... Closed my eyes.... Dude did not even go for a kiss, fondle or anything! No fore-play! He went straight for my underwear! I cringed and tightly closed his hands between my thighs. Then before he even said a word, I opened my eyes, looked at him looking at me questionably. And I just thought, "oh shit, to hell with!" And just zoned out.

I remember feeling him in me and thinking, "so this is it?" Before I got through that thought, he was already pulling out and convulsing as he came! Dang 2 minute brotha! Lol.... I looked around for where he threw my panties, put them on and saw him reaching for a pack of ciggies. Then I told him I was leaving. He asked me to stay the night but I was done! I had done the very thing my mom was ranting about, so what else? "Nope" I said and left!

Got back to my dorm and ran straight to the bathroom, scrubbed my body crazy and cried myself silly! I felt worse than I did with mom's words. My house mates all kept watchful eyes on me from a distance. Not knowing what my next move was. Soon as someone saw Segun on the street, they made a beeline for him and I went to my room. I could hear him jesting with my friends then he came to my room. I was curled up in a fetal position on my bed.

He makes his usual jokeful remarks and we chatted for a while never mentioning for a second what had happened earlier. I made some food, him and my roomies ate, I could not stomach anything more than pop that night. I needed to put that whole day away from my mind. Looking back, I can dare say I did a great job!

We had our exams starting the next week and Abbey came over to study with us. Somehow, Yetunde was spending the night at Bobagunwa with Jonomo.....lol. Kemi was staying with her Law mates on Itamerin so I was left with Abbey and his cousins Yomi and Jonino. Segun in his usual form was hanging around the hall gisting with us but he left to go home. I recall we had no electricity that night so we studied with candle light and some how ended back chatting. Along the line, in Jonino's normal fashion of talking and slipping, he mentioned Toyin was dating another chic I knew from the neighborhood, Yemisi! Hmmm.... I had my suspiscions but did not think too deep about things. Biodun was leary about telling me this info as he knew as well but did not know how serious me and Toyin were. I did not mention what had transpired 3 days prior. I saw his cheating ways as my escape route with him. I had been avoiding him like a plague since the deed. We called it a night and went to sleep.

The next day, I sent a message through them guys to tell Toyin to come see me. They were reluctant at first but I reassured them I was not about to cause no drama. Few hours after they left, he comes stauntering in my room. I had cooked some food. Made him a plate. When he got done eating, I told him we needed to talk. Told him straight up I was on to his runs and that him and I were through. He got on his knees begging me, trying to force tears out of his eyes and looking all pitiful and what not. I sure was not moved with "one" useless deceitfully forced tear! Walked him out my room and asked him not to look back. Funny enough, I had a weird freeing feeling.

April 19th 2000, got my cherry popped, April 23rd, broke up with the guy that popped it! Jeez girl! Just mean....but I was glad!

The following Sunday, I go to church as I always did. RCF(Redeemed Christian Fellowship) was the college version of my home church. During announcements, my name was mentioned that my mom was outside looking for me! Gosh! Utter embarrassment! I went to meet her, and she was smiling sheepishly! Talking about, "oh am glad you go to church in school!"

Wondering why she was here, I gave her a blank look, she got the message and said my youth Pastor at home wanted to talk with me. Why me Lord? Got in the car to find out she came with my Aunt, her younger sister. That one hour drive home, I was silent and did not participate in their chats, as hard as Aunty Moji tried to get me talking. I just gave monotonous answers to direct questions.

I did have a talk with my Pastor, but all I told him was just surface stories about dating a guy but we were broken up now. He did his duty as a counsellor. Momsie picked me up later that evening, took me home and I was back in school the next day.

I put all that experience behind me. Days turned into weeks into months. Just living the campus life, books, friends and chatting days and nights away. One such night, while chatting with housemates and neighbors, Segun calls me outside saying he wanted to show me something so I went to him. He had me look to the sky. It was a clear crisp night. We could see the stars for miles. He pointed out 3 distinct stars in the sky and I told him, "oh yeah, triton's belt" as I had called the Orion's belt then. Lol... And we talked about the stars, tried to make out other constellations, the big and small dipper and the likes. We even tried to get the other guys to join our star search quest. Lol...they just blew us off as 2 crazy nuts.

By this time we chatted practically every night for hours unending. What we talked about, I really had no idea. It ranged from books, our families, previous schools, politics, science, law, philosophy, religion, sex. We always had something to talk about! Along the line I found out his older sister was a friend I knew from church in Iwaya. We had way too many mutual friends. He was the big brother I had always hoped to have.

He had asked about why I broke up with Toyin and I gave him the barest details at first but as our friendship grew I told him what really went down. I could tell he was pained at what I had to go through and being the good friend always said I'll find someone better. He was dating some girl that lived in his dorm and they were always breaking up and getting back together. I always spoke to him about how to work things out with a woman. We basically became each others confidante.

I recall one night we were talking, he was as usual broken up with her again. He parked his car in front of my dorm. Jonomo and Yetunde were busy feeling lovey-dovey in the front passenger seat and we were teasing them. Segun is a tall huge guy and I like to call him a huge teddy bear. Being a guy I was really free and comfortable with, I always hugged, leaned and clung to him. Not in any sexy or romantic way or anthing like that. So I was leaning against him as we teased them guys on. He had his right hand across my shoulder as we were cracking up bad holding on to each other so as not to fall. We settled from laughing and continued talking. I felt his fingers playing with my hair, I probably had braids, I can't remember. I didn't mind and went on talking. Somehow along the line, he started playing with my earlobe. Hmmm..... That sensation sent sparks flying in my body to places I never even knew existed. After a couple minutes of enduring that, I managed to wriggle out of our leaning position. The guys went their way as we did and I put those sensations away with a cold bath and forgot that night.

July comes and we all had to leave school due to either a strike or cult issues, can't remember which it was. I missed my friends so badly as I was in Akute, my fathers house. Out of the way from everybody. So I decided to go to Iwaya. One person I missed most was Segun, but we spoke practically everyday on the phone. The network in Akute sucked big time so to Iwaya I headed.

Yetunde's brother, Toyin was a very good friend and I sometimes felt he had a crush on me! Wrong! He just took me like a sister. While hanging out with me one day, he says, "you know you have a secret admirer right?" In my,mind I was like, "crap!" I dont need none of those! I was on a "man-cation" I was on a vendetta with guys. Not ready for any form of relationships at all. But being the girl I was, curious about who this guy was, he gave me the run around before telling me.........Segun!!!

Ok another pause for tonight.... Hope I have been able to wet ur appetite for more gist!

Until then remember......

"Love makes the world go round!"

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The Chronicles of our lives.....

Ok, so I just got done watching "The Notebook" after having watched it when it came out in the movies in 2004. The same year my love story started to crumble. Seeing that movie the first time was so heart-wrenching for me because the passion between the main characters hit way too close to home.....

So..... 6 years later, everytime I go get a movie to watch, it seems the Dvd just calls me from the aisles. And tonight I finally succumbed knowing the state of my heart right now. Of cause, I laughed in the right places, cried in the right places and visualized my life in some scenes on a parallel view.

Now inspired to write my own story, not like anyone is going to read this blog, just a way to let it all out..... I might read this 5, 10, 20 years from now and laugh, cry or just reminisce, who knows? But here goes......

Dates and times approximate as this has been a while. Some dates are exact. If anyone happens to stumble on this blog, I hope you enjoy it....




Early 2000
Back in school, Olabisi Onabanjo University, Ago-Iwoye, Ogun State, formerly called Ogun State Uni.... Second Semester 100 levels...lol. We had lectures on PS(permanent site). Not so much of lectures, more like hanging around in class and waiting endlessly for our lecturers to come teach. That is a whole different topic for a whole different blog. I lived in Aiyegbami, Cherith Hall was the name we gave our dorm. I had 2 roommates;

Kemi, I knew from church, we grew up in the teens church of RCCG Acme Parish. She was in Ago way before me, started with pre-law. When I was doing my diploma in Lagos at the long-distance center, I always bunked at her place off Itamerin when exams period came as we took our exams on the main campus of the school. Those times I spent in Ago, I met a few of her friends so being roomies came naturally when I got into the regular undergrad.

Yetunde, I met in Iwaya while staying with my Uncle as I was there being tutored to re-take my SSCE and also going to the satellite campus for lectures. She was a neighborhood friend and we struck a fast friendship. She graduated from high school either in '98 or '99 I can't quite recall. I was retaking the tests in '99 and felt so out of touch as I had officially graduated high school in '96. When I got picked for Mass Comm in OSU, I asked her if she was interested as she was just waiting for the next year to start college. Lol....such a kid she was back then, she said yes. I helped her with her paperwork and 2 weeks after I moved to Ago, she joins me in school not knowing no one else but me, we became roomies too.

Our first semester there was all about discovery! Mass Comm class was said to have had about 450 students. Lol... Looking back now, I think we were more like 200/250. We were all so young! What did we know?

That was the semester friendships started forming. We added to our duo, Yinka, Kemi, Grillo, Yemi, Afolabi(RIP), Oreofe, Abbey oh, Jonino, Dapo. We were this clique of mid-class good kids in our minds. We the girls did not dabble into "Aristo runs", the guys were not involved in cultism. We were all churchy kids to some degree, except Yinka who was a moslem then.

Back to the dorm, second semester, year 1. Still discovering our neighborhood. On our nameless street were other dorms; "Kuku House", the "Ake" house two doors down, "Bobagunwa House" and other privates houses that were used as dorms. The Uni did not provide dormitries so private people built and rented out their houses to us students.

It has always in my nature to study my environment and the people in it before I made friends though that in itself is sometimes a spontaneuos act! I was more closely knit with my housemates and their friends. The Ladele sisters lived in the room next to us; Lape, Jeje and Iroti. Iroti and Kemi, my roomie were Law classmates. Their fellow mates/friends became our friends too. Bisi, Bisi, Bola, Arin, Remi, Joko etc. We all had mutual friends in their class and ours so we were all friends and acquaintances.

Yetunde and I always hung out at Abbey's house, "Olowoporoku House" with him and his cousins. Cool cats the whole lot. In our neighborhood, Kemi was friends with the guys in Bobagunwa. I had noticed one of the guys that kinda looked familiar to me and told her that evening. In the normal Kemi fashion, she made fun of me that, "Moby, na everybody u sabi? Na everybody look familiar?" We laughed and I reminded her that I went to 8 high schools and 7 elementary schools(another blog), so I might actually know the dude....lol.

Not quite long after, the guy and his roomies walk past our hall and Kemi goes to say hi. Goodness knows what she says to them, and they walk over to us and we all got introduced. Dayo, Segun and Jonomo. Segun is the familiar guy so I asked if we had met before. He too had wondered all the while since we had moved to the neighborhood. Jonomo was smitten by Yetunde as I could immediately tell with how his attention was on her....lol. The Ladele sisters joined us and we all chatted for a bit and the guys left for their hall.

Back at Olowoporoku, I had struck a friendship with Abbey's cousin Toyin. He had a banging body as he was a body-builder and also taught karate to people that signed up for the classes. He was a year 3 Law student at that time. I had taken karate at a young age. I quit after getting to the third black belt stage. I kinda grew out of my tomboy stage..... Kinda....lol.

Our friendship was centered on karate, philosophy and law, not like I was interested in law, he just liked to talk about law a lot....lol. We spent time together and somehow started dating. Very weird as his cousins knew something was not quite right with us dating but did not say anything. Boys covering boys asses you could say.

He always talked about me coming to his dorm which was on the other side of town. Lol....and I stalled as I knew he wanted so bad to sleep with me. I just was not ready for that yet as at that time I was still a virgin-by choice not christianity.....lol. He tried to act all patient with me, but I knew he wanted me bad!! Lol... We fooled around a lot, a whole lot. I wonder how/why he didn't rape me?

All along, my friendship with my neighborhood friends was getting stronger. Particularly with Segun. The next night after we met, he came knocking at our door. Jonomo was with him. They cracked jokes with us, talking about, "oh yeah, y'all are the jambites" and ish like that. They hung out for a bit then left.

Few days after that, Yetunde and I were back from classes early and Kemi had the only room key we had and was not back from classes or fellowship, can't remember. So we were waiting for her on the verandah/porch when Segun was on his way home and asked us to come wait at his place. We went with him, hung out till Bola, Kemi and Iroti came back from school. They joined us at Bobagunwa and we all (us girls and his roomies) gisted, Segun served us bananas as that was all he had at home....lol. Then we called it a night and went home.

I still could not remember when or where I had met Segun. Him and Jonomo came knocking on our door the following evening. They hung out for a bit. I was cooking and invited them to join in our meager dinner. Segun cracked jokes about how he does not eat any other female food apart from his mom's but he will let that slide that evening as his roomies were eating too....lol.

Noticing how Jonomo and Yetunde were talking, I pulled Kemi and Segun out of the room to give them privacy to gist well. We three ended up on the verandah chatting and making fun of them guys in the room...lol. Kemi's mates soon came to snag her so it was just Segun and I left gisting. We got talking about ourselves, what schools we had gone to etc, then he mentioned he had gone to "Kankon" and a lightbulb went off in my head!!! I had gone to the same school for 2 years! That was why I thought his face was familiar! He was 4 years my senior and a few of his mates were my "school-fathers" as we called them then. I now remembered I had seen him hanging with them a few times back then. I always wondered who their dark, huge, quietly-aloof friend was.

Now having a common ground to talk about, we chatted for 3 straight hours remembering old mates, teachers and boarding school life. Just cracking ourselves up at the memories. Him and Jonomo leave to their dorm as there was a curfew in the town we lived in for traditional and safety reasons.

After that we became real tight buddies! Kemi even teased that I was double dating and I let know her straight up he was just like a big brother. No such thing as I was a one-man-woman and did not even look at him like that. As our friendship grew, he inquired about whom I was dating, I told him and he said, "Toyin the karate dude"? Hmph! Couldn't I do better? He teased me so much about that. We had good laughs. I had told him that I knew Toyin wanted to sleep with me and he asked if I wanted to? When I told him I was still a virgin and not quite ready, he almost fell over on his head! Said he didn't believe me, that I did not talk or look like a virgin. More laughs. I always confided in him on a whole lot of issues. He was my "aproko" friend....lol. At this time, Yetunde and Jonomo had started dating.

7 weeks into dating Toyin, momsie pays me a visit, brings me pocket money and groceries. I needed some "purewater" so we decide to go to the market to get some. On our way to the car, she says, "oh get your friends, let me take pictures of y'all. The only girls in the dorm that evening were Yetunde and the Ladele sisters, Namso and Kenny(new dorm mates n class mates). The sisters had their boyfriends over that day. Leke, Niyi and Mueen. So I called them girls, when my mom saw me call the sisters, I noticed her facial expression changed. She went ahead, took pictures and we got in the car.

Soon as we were in the car, she started screaming at me that were those the kind of friends I had?!?! I am looking like, what do you mean? Apparently, when coming into the dorm, momsie had seen them chics and their guys in the room with them and assumed beyond what she saw. Saying the guys were on the beds with them girls, couldn't they seat in chairs while they visited? You have to excuse my mom's imaginations..... She had told me as a kid when I had my first period, "now you are a woman, if you get behind closed doors with a guy, you come out preggers!!!" Lol..... Yeah mom! Love ya tho!

She carried on all the way to the market till she dropped me back at my dorm. Good thing I had told my friends my mom was strict so it was not weird seeing that she was still "raking" when she dropped me off saying, "if you like, come back home preggers like the rest of your cousins!" That really hurt me! I took my drinking water in and locked myself in the room bawling my eyes out! I could not understand why she did not believe me or the approve of my friendships! My roomies and dorm mates tried to console me but could not get into the room. They begged me to open the door to no avail. Couple of hours later, I hear Toyin's voice. Apparently one of them had gone to Abbey's place to see if he was there so he could talk me into opening the door and not do anything stupid to myself.

Hearing his voice I opened the door, didn't give him a chance to say anything, stormed out the door, stopped the next bike guy, got on and called Toyin to join me. On the bike, he asked where I was taking him, I told him to give the bike guy his address that I just wanted to get away from everyone. He did so and I looked back at the entrance of my hall, my friends all had this flabber-gasted look on their faces like, "bitch we have been begging you to open the door for almost 2 hours and all you could do when you heard a man's voice was to storm past without a word???"

I turned around with a decision known only to me at that time, not looking back. The bike ride was a quiet one. We get to Toyin's place and go straight to his room. He started asking me about what had upset me so bad that my roomie had to come get him? I told him I didn't want to talk about and that I was ready for him to have sex with me..... That was my decision!


I stop for now to continue later.......lol.....

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Anoda Sunday......

Lol....got to workers meeting pretty...late...

Kingdoms
Of God
Of heaven
Of this world
Of men
Of darkness

Each one has a purpose

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